The ebb and flow of every relationship begins in the Petri dish of hope. Without it the relationship never begins except for those formed out of requirements like employment, abuse and slavery.
For the others, those of choice and even love they are born of hope. A young woman meets a man who is caring, receiving and even at some level “softer” than other men she has known. A hope is born in her hear, “could this be the one?”
A man sees a woman, first attracted by her visually, he risks and she responds. The hope springs alive within him.
When this hope is encouraged, fed and grows so does the relation between a man and woman, two friends, fellow workers, or whoever is willing to offer hope to another.
The beginning of the end of that relationship is when hope is nicked or damaged. If not repaired the loss of hope over a period of time is the bleed that leads to the ultimate death of the relationship.
Hope is built on caring, communicating, truthfulness, being real and trust. If you desire to grow a relationship you are currently in or start a new one feed it with these morsels.
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